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New Baby in the Pack

When Harry met baby

  -12   The response from friends and family when told my wife and I were expecting our first child was, "Harry's nose will be put out of joint!" I was determined our 3-year-old Labrador’s nose would not be put out by, nor would he be shooed outside, away from the new baby in the pack.

I was confident Harry would accept our child. In part my confidence was based on his breed: Labradors are generally good family dogs. Harry had also been exposed to our nephews and nieces and friends’ children. And Harry had had 3 years of training at my local dog club.

Robin Barker in her book “The Mighty Toddler” (Macmillan, 2002) recommends parents “train [their] dog to obey commands. For example, Sit, Come and Stay.” These are basic commands for a well-trained dog, like Harry. And they are the foundation upon which further training and control are built.

When my wife came home from the hospital, she greeted Harry on her own to let him get over the excitement of seeing her again. Then I carried our son into the house and laid his bassinette on the floor while my wife held Harry's collar.

Our son was unwrapped so Harry could see he was a mini-us, with arms and legs. Harry sniffed him and gave him little licks. If Harry got too vigorous, my wife pulled his collar, commanded "Gentle" and praised his good response.

"Gentle" proved an excellent command for checking over exuberance in Harry and in our son as he got older and played more with Harry, starting with tail and ear pulling! 4½ years have passed. There have been jealous moments and the odd accident, but Harry has repaid my confidence.

In truth, I ensured he did so, by not banishing him when our child arrived. Harry still gets walked; he's brushed, fed and played with; and he and our son interact as naturally as possible. And I still train Harry.

Dog training brings many rewards, none as important as the safe relationship between a dog and a new baby in the pack.

© 2007 Robert Fairhead 

A middle-aged dad and dog owner, Robert is an editor and a writer for Tall And True and blogs at RobertFairhead.com. Robert enjoys reading and writing (fiction, nonfiction and reviews), playing the guitar (though seldom finds the time to practise), and riding his bike and swimming laps (when he can!). Robert has had a varied career, as an electrician, sales and marketing rep, computer programmer, volunteer dog trainer and wanna-be writer. He has also had a one-night stand as a stand-up comic!

Robert Fairhead

Robert Fairhead


Sydney, NSW, Australia.
A middle-aged dad and dog owner, Robert is an editor and a writer for Tall And True and blogs at RobertFairhead.com. Robert enjoys reading and writing (fiction, nonfiction and reviews), playing the guitar (though seldom finds the time to practise), and riding his bike and swimming laps (when he can!). Robert has had a varied career, as an electrician, sales and marketing rep, computer programmer, volunteer dog trainer and wanna-be writer. He has also had a one-night stand as a stand-up comic!

This article appeared in the Village Voice Eastern-Harbourside in March 2007 and a version in my dog club newsletter, PawPrints, titled: “When Harry Met Jaiden“. Please note: dogs interaction with children, especially young children, should always be monitored. Never leave a dog alone with a young child, even a dependable dog, like Harry!

 

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